A Survivor’s Inspired Testimony
As a little girl in Jamaica going through years of childhood #sexualabuse, #drugrape & other violence, I was consumed in torture, darkness & pain. However, there was something inside so [...]
Breaking out of the Matrix
In Jamaica, they said when it rains it pours and it certainly stormed when I returned from Jamaica in June 2018 after my sister’s burial. I’d hoped to be feeling better soon but during my grief, [...]
RIP my Sisters
WARNING: As always, much self care is to be taken to avoid overwhelming emotions my blog may trigger.It’s been a while since my last blog and some of you may have been aware of some of the [...]
By Tamar
In bonding, healthy sex life, intimacy after sexual abuse, intimate relationship, passion, sexual abuse survivors relationships, survivor life
Posted Intimacy After Sexual Abuse
Following last week’s blog theme on ‘Healthy Relationships’, I was asked to cover the theme of Sex after Sexual Abuse.In addressing this request, I will cover the context of sex [...]
By Tamar
In Healing for Sexual abuse victims survivor, healthy relationship, intimate relationship, life after been abused, parent child, sexual abuse survivors relationships, survivor life
Posted Healthy Relationships: Life of a Survivor
What is a healthy relationship? Whether we’re a survivor of sexual abuse or not, I’m aware this is not the kind of question many of us think about. Yet healthy relationships is vital [...]
By Tamar
In Healing for Sexual abuse victims survivor, men who has been abused, overcoming trauma, self care after abuse, self love
Posted From Victim to Survivor – The Healing Journey
Last week’s blog: ‘Don’t Turn a Blind Eye to Child Sexual Abuse‘ generated a lot of questions and rightly so! I’ve decided for this blog to focus mainly on one of [...]
By Tamar
In breaking the silence, child sexual abuse, child victims, childhood sexual abuse, physical abuse, R Kelly's sex scandal, stand up for children, survivors of sexual abuse, violence against children
Posted Don’t Turn a Blind Eye to Child Sexual Abuse
Let’s talk about Child Sexual Abuse. Why? Because most children affected won’t talk about it, unless we prompt them! So, if we’re too afraid or uncomfortable to talk about [...]
By Tamar
In anxiety, breaking barriers, childhood trauma, common Mental Illness, Depression, healthy unhealthy mindset, internal growth, post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), Stress, survivor
Posted Survivors Living with Mental Illness
Healthy vs Unhealthy Mindset Our mindset is the key to unlocking who we are and to find true happiness and purpose. Trauma and mental illness cause dis-ease of the mind. They infect [...]
By Tamar
In childhood sexual abuse, embracing change, healing, knowing your why, meditation, mental illness, mindset development, overcoming challenges, positive mindset, self-awareness, spiritual consciousness, survivor
Posted Change in Progress!
Goddesses Family at Nebula’s Healing and Cleansing Weekend It’s been almost two weeks since the Nebula’s SiStars Healing and Cleansing weekend. Oh how time flies! Last week I wrote my first [...]
By Tamar
In African spirituality, childhood sexual abuse, cleansing, healing, inspiration, mental illness, Nubian Sisters, retreats, Self empowerment, sexual abuse, Sistah groups, spiritual consciousness, survivor
Posted Nebula’s Sistar Healing and Cleansing Weekend
My journey of overcoming childhood sexual abuse, rape and various mental illnesses has led me to new heights. I answered a healing call on Facebook for Nubian SiStars to attend the Nebula’s [...]